When I was a kid I had this game called Hexed. And although it had 2339 computer verified solutions, I never found one except the one I copied from the box. Well two, if you count doing that one backwards. I think my mom still has it around somewhere because I seem to remember pulling it out a year or two back. In spite of my history of failure, I still wanted to try.
I was thinking about that game today because I am experimenting with some upcoming schedule changes. I'm not sure what I will be able to keep in our routine once we start school again and what will have to be put aside - or if there is some "computer verified solution" that would allow us to keep all the things I really like about our current schedule and add in schoolwork as well.
Another thing I have been thinking about lately is the old saying, "A place for everything, and everything in its place." I thought once that having my house organized that way was my goal, but I'm starting to see the futility in it. Almost daily something new comes through our front door, something without a place. And since I'm not the only person taking things out, I've found that the best I can do is to just put things away where I am most likely to look for them. Eventually that becomes its "place". I don't think these two issues are that different from each other.
Stuff - it comes, it goes, sometimes it gets shoved into the wrong place, sometimes it gets lost and gone forever only to pop up where you least expect it. We have a limited amount of space, but I just keep reorganizing. Time is more complicated, at least I think it is. Not only is there a limited amount of time, but I can never guarantee that a particular activity will fit into the time I want it to. I want to take the kids to the park more often, but when "Let's leave now" turns into, "I gotta go potty first" or "I'm can't fasten my bike helmet" or "Wow, I didn't know it was cold enough for jackets." suddenly it's an all morning affair.
I'm not sure what I can do about time except to usually try to do what's most important first and to not get so hung up on my schedule that it ruins my day if it goes off track. And if it's much like my old game, I'll start putting all the pieces together, and it will seem at first that they will all fit. Then I'll get to the last few pieces and be confounded, so I'll dump the box out and start over again.